In case you haven't looked up the definitions already.
Here they are:
Narcissistic
personality disorder
Narcissistic
personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated
sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy
for others. But behind this mask of ultraconfidence lies a fragile self-esteem
that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism. - Mayo Clinic Staff
Sociopath
DSM-IV Definition. Antisocial personality disorder is
characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local
culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by
societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths.
A sociopath can
be defined as a person who has Antisocial Personality Disorder. This disorder
is characterized by a disregard for the feelings of others, a lack of remorse
or shame, manipulative behavior, unchecked egocentricity, and the ability to
lie in order to achieve one's goals.
Possible behavior and characteristics of a Sociopath
- Glibness
and Superficial Charm.
- Manipulative
and Conning. They never recognize the rights of others and see their
self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are
covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument
to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
- Grandiose
Sense of Self. Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
- Pathological
Lying. Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for
them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a
complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and
even able to pass lie detector tests.
- Lack
of Remorse, Shame or Guilt. A deep seated rage, which is split off and
repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but
only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and
accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they
let nothing stand in their way.
- Shallow
Emotions. When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it
is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by
insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a
normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
- Incapacity
for Love
- Need
for Stimulation. Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments
are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
- Callousness/Lack
of Empathy. Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only
contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
- Poor
Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
- Rage
and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an
addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the
victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no
sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
- Early
Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency. Usually has a history of behavioral and
academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in
making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or
animals, stealing, etc.
- Irresponsibility/Unreliability.
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent
to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames
others, even for acts they obviously committed.
- Promiscuous
Sexual Behavior/Infidelity. Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual
acting out of all sorts.
- Lack
of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle. Tends to move around a lot or makes
all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others
effectively.
- Criminal or
Entrepreneurial Versatility. Changes their image as needed to avoid
prosecution. Changes life story readily.